Hello, Struggling! After spending some time in the Savannah, I’ve learned to be a strong lion with boundaries, and so can you!
My biggest advice would be to speak up or roar for yourself and others.
I think it’s important to understand why bullies are mean to others. Bullies often use threats, insults, or exclusion to intimidate and harm. They do this because they are insecure, have a need for control, or want to feel powerful. These behaviors often reflect something they are lacking in their jungle. They may be dealing with something in their pride that makes them feel like they have no control in their own lives, so they take it out on other brave lions.
No matter the reason, bullying is still not right and should be stopped. If you find yourself being bullied, know you’re never alone. You can always reach out to teachers, family, and fellow lions. You’ve got a whole pride ready to give you advice and support. Don’t be afraid to speak up from fear of what your friends might say—your happiness and safety come first.
It’s also important to know that bullies pick people to target because they think they can get a reaction from them. But you’re the king or queen of your jungle, so keep a brave face and don’t show them that their words or actions affect you. Stay calm, and walk away with your tail held high—you’re stronger than their mean words.
Bullying can affect even the bravest lions, so it’s important to prioritize your mental health. Do things that make you feel happy and strong, like the royal lion you are. You could work out or hang out with your pride at your favorite place to recharge.
It’s also important to know that, even if you’re not the one being bullied, it’s important to be someone else’s hero by speaking up for them. If you see a friend being bullied, you should be there for them—sit with them at lunch or walk them to class. If you know who is bullying your friend, tell somebody. Never be afraid to speak up—lions together are unstoppable!
If you feel like the bullying is too much, know there’s a wise lioness you can speak to and get advice from right here on campus. Dr. Maria Valcourt is our school psychologist. You can find her in the Counseling Office, or you can email her at mvalcourt@ilsroyals.com.
Keep roaring loud and proud, South Miami! Always protect your heart and do the right thing. Surround yourself with fellow lions who make you happy and respect you—that’s what being part of a pride is all about!
Need more advice? Reach out! You can submit your woes and inquires to lucy@ilsroyals.com!
Be sure to keep up with me and tune in for the latest roar!
Stay Fierce!
Lucy
